Pole Dancing Gifts: Inspiration for Every Budget

Pole dancing gifts span every budget, from practical, under-$25 accessories to luxury gear like dance poles and premium platform shoes. There are even digital options for last-minute giving. Whether you're shopping for your favorite pole dancer, or looking for ideas to add to your own wish list, you'll find plenty of inspiration in this guide that rounds up affordable accessories, standout splurges, and even email-ready options.


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Shopping for the perfect gift for the pole dancer in your life doesn't have to be stressful or overwhelming. It gets way easier once we break it down like this:

  • What's your budget?
    First things first. There are plenty of pole gifts at every price point, so there's no point breaking the bank if you're on a budget. 

    Just select an option below to see gift ideas in your chosen price range. And if price is no object, there's a luxury category too.

  • How fast do you need it?
    If time is tight, a digital gift card might be best. Look for the gift cards option below for instant delivery gifts. Got more time? Most online orders will arrive within a week, but if it's close to a busy shopping time of year, or you have a hard deadline, be sure to check shipping policies before you finalize your purchase.

  • What do they want or need?
    This is almost always the hardest part. Unless you're making your own gift list, then it's the fun part!

    If your intended recipient isn't dropping obvious hints, there are a couple of ways to find out what they might like:

    1 - Ask their friends. This age-old method likely won't let you down. Pole friends know what pole friends like, and if they don't know, they can easily find out. 

    2 - If they take classes at a local studio, stop in and inquire with the staff. Studio-goers tend to be a pretty close-knit group, so someone is bound to know someone who knows exactly what your giftee would love to receive.

    3 - If you really can't pin this down, the gift card option is always a good default. In this case, your only decision is to choose a general category, like clothing or online lessons. And if all else fails, Amazon has it all!

    4 - One final option is to forego the surprise. Be honest and tell your recipient that you'd love to buy them something they want or need for pole, but you don't have a clue what that might be. Then suggest the two of you do some online browsing together so they can pick out what they'd like. 

Two Ways to Browse Pole Dancing Gifts

Here are two options for browsing the pole dancing gift ideas on this page:

1 - Select any gift category below to jump directly to that section, or

2 - Continue reading to get the full scoop, and lots of ideas, for what's hot in pole dancing gifts right now.

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Let's Start With Dance Poles

If your intended recipient is just getting into pole dancing and is feeling limited by once-a-week sessions at the local studio, a dance pole should earn you some major brownie points!

These days, you can get almost any type of pole imaginable...portable or permanent, brass or stainless, stationary or spinning, the list goes on!

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Your Pole Pal has written detailed reviews of the major dance poles, including everything you need to know to find the perfect one for your lucky pole dancer.

To learn more about the different types of poles, including limitations, installation, safety, pros and cons and more, this pole buying guide will get you up to speed.

Luxury Gift Ideas

These recommendations for luxury gifts for pole dancers include only items of the highest quality, and/or unusual, one-of-a-kind equipment and accessories.

If you're looking for the best that money can buy, or a very unique gift, you might just find it here.

Jamilla Deville Ultimate DVD Collection - $120

Jamilla Deville Ultimate DVD Collection

This award winning DVD set from Jamilla Deville, one of the world's most accomplished pole performers, would be a welcome addition to any pole dancer's collection.

The set includes the Art of Pole series, widely referred to as the "Pole Dancer's Bible." These five full length DVDs include detailed step-by-step instruction, mini-routines combining the moves being taught, warm up and cool down exercises, and even short performance segments.

Also included are two additional DVDs with a variety of pole dancing routines. These are fabulous both for inspiration and for help with choreography.

Suitable for all levels and designed with progression in mind. This DVD set has a 5 star rating at Amazon, with good reason. Highly recommended by Your Pole Pal!


Pink Rhinestone Platform Ankle Boots - $167

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SexyShoes is one of Your Pole Pal's all time favorite online shops for pole dance shoes, and these pink platform boots are just one more awesome reason to head on over there right now!

These gorgeous ankle boots have a 2.75" platform, a 7" heel, and are covered in glittery rhinestones. They also have a side zipper for easy on/off.

Any pole dancer who is taking exotic style pole classes, or just enjoys the sexy side of the sport, is sure to love these fabulous boots!


Premium Pole Crash Mat - $240

Premium pole crash mat

Pole crash mats really shouldn't be considered a luxury item, at least not once it's time to tackle climbs and inversions. Falls from a dance pole can be very dangerous, particularly where inversions are concerned.

A pole mat will help your favorite pole dancer stay safe while learning more challenging moves. This particular mat gets Your Pole Pal's recommendation for several reasons: At 5' wide and 3.5" thick, it's built to be good at what it does; the foam is very firm, and the outer vinyl layer is said to be tough enough to handle stilettos!

This pole dancing safety mat is available in purple, black, pink and blue, and each mat comes with its own carrying case.


Pole Dancing Gifts Under $100

Flashdance LED Platform Sandal - $99

There's not a pole dancer alive who doesn't LOVE a great pair of platform shoes. Add a little sass in the form of LED lights and you've got a sure winner.

These popular Pleaser shoes have an illuminated slide and heel. The platform measures 2 3/4" high with a 7" heel. The lights are USB chargeable and feature 7 color changes & 4 lighting patterns.

And if this shoe isn't quite "it," there are lots of other options in heel heights, colors, and styles available from Your Pole Pal's favorite online pole dance shoe shops, Sexy Shoes.

Sexy Shoes ships worldwide and has an awesome selection of footwear just perfect for the adventurous pole dancer.


Art of Pole 5 DVD Box Set - $99

Jamilla Deville Art of Pole DVD set

This 5 DVD set from champion pole dancer Jamilla Deville is a complete training program in a box.

Suitable for all levels, these DVDs cover everything from the basics to advanced tricks, inversions and more. Any pole dancer would love to add this set to their pole dancing DVD library...just ask any pole dancer!


Pole Dancing Gifts Under $50

Extra Strength Pole Grip - $42

Itac2 Extra Strength Pole Grip

For those who complain about slipping or losing their grip while dancing, one of the popular brands of pole grip, such as iTac, tucked in a Christmas stocking might be just the thing.

This is a fabulous pole dancing gift idea, since grip issues plague almost every pole dancer. This particular grip is extra strength to help ensure a no-slip experience.

iTac2 works by repelling sweat and moisture. It's hypoallergenic and made from natural beeswax. And unlike some other products, it won't leave a white residue on skin or pole.

And bonus, the large 200 gram (7.5 oz) size will last quite a while, especially since a little goes a long way.


Flexibility Trainer - $35

Everstretchh Flexibility Trainer

If there's one thing that almost every pole dancer wants, it's greater flexibility. This pro level trainer attaches quickly and easily to any door, and can handle a tension load of 300 lbs. It's designed to stay in place, and will not damage the door.

Give the gift of flexibility to the pole dancer in your life!


Pole Dancing Gifts Under $25

Neoprene Half Sole Foot Pad - $20

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Spinner Skins Pouch

Yes, it looks a bit odd, but this neoprene half sole is commonly worn by dancers (including pole dancers) to help protect the balls of the feet from blistering. Too many pivot turns in bare feet on a sweaty floor will do that, ouch!

Easy to slip on and off whenever a little extra protection is needed, these half sole foot pads are just the ticket to allow longer practice sessions.

Neoprene washes up easily and dries quickly, so these will always be ready when they're needed. Plus, they're now available in a variety of fun colors and patterns, and they also come with a cute carrying pouch to keep them clean and dry.


Pole Water Bottle - $25

Pole Dancing Water Bottle

Pole dancers need to stay hydrated, and what better way than with this sassy water bottle?

Stainless steel construction with a spout for easier drinking on the go. The plastic screw top even has a loop for easy carrying or clip it on (just be sure to unclip before getting on the pole!).

Holds 20 oz (approx 600 ml) of water or your favorite sport drink.


And If All Else Fails...Pole Dancing Gift Cards To The Rescue!

X-Pole USA Gift Certificates - poles, clothing, mats & more

X-Pole offers gift certificates in several denominations, from $50 to $500. You'll receive your gift certificate as an e-voucher, though you should allow a day or two for certificates to be processed and emailed to you.

Gift certificates can be used for any product X-Pole sells, including grip aids, crash mats and clothing, in addition to dance poles, of course!

Products ship to: USA, Canada, & Mexico

X-Pole UK Gift Certificates - poles, mats, accessories & more

X-Pole UK offers gift certificates in several denominations, from £25 to £500. Gift certificates are sent directly to your recipient as an e-voucher.

Something really handy about these gift cards is that you can specify the date you want to send the gift certificate, so you can order in advance and then relax knowing your shopping has been done as the special day approaches.

Products ship to: UK only - while X-Pole UK ships worldwide, their gift cards can only be purchased and redeemed within the United Kingdom.

OpenDance Gift Vouchers

OpenDance also offers gift vouchers, which are delivered by email immediately after completing your online purchase. Vouchers are available in various denominations, ranging from $50 to $350 and can be used towards the purchase of any OpenDance online class.

Products ship to: No products to ship, as all classes can be accessed online from anywhere in the world.

Lil Mynx now has a gift card available too! You can choose the amount you'd like to give, with options from $10 to $1,000. These are digital cards so they'll be available right away to send to your recipient.

Products ship to: Worldwide, but higher shipping costs outside of USA

Rarr Designs is an Australian company offering a huge selection of pole dance wear for both women and men, as well as accessories like knee pads, leg warmers and more. They have lots of options in plus size pole clothes too!

Their e-gift card can be set to be delivered directly to your recipient via email, and you can even choose the date you'd like it to arrive.

Products ship to: All products ship worldwide, with free shipping on all orders over AUD $150, to anywhere!

Rarr Designs Gift Card

And if all else fails, an Amazon Gift Card is always a great gift. It's perfect if you don't know what the recipient needs or wants, since Amazon carries almost everything including platform shoes, crash mats, books and more!

Plus, if you're gifting at the last minute, you can choose a downloadable gift card to print off and give. If the recipient is far away you can even email it or send it to them via Messenger!

Reminder...

If the special day is approaching quickly and you're purchasing pole dancing gifts that will need to be mailed - especially around the busy Christmas season, it's a good idea to confirm shipping times before hitting the order button, to ensure you're not cutting it too close!

More Pole Inspiration

Looking for more ideas and inspiration? Check these out...

  • Pole Dancing Music - explore these curated playlists, each focusing on a different style of pole music. Take advantage of the style notes, "best for" ideas, and tips for working with each type of music to help develop your musicality.  
  • Pole Dancing Videos - these video collections feature a variety of different themes like plus size polers, doubles pole dancing, and competition videos to inspire your own pole practice. 
  • Pole Room Ideas  - if you're a home-based poler, or are thinking of creating your own private practice space, you'll love this section. Other home polers share their designs, decor and more, to help inspire you as you plan your own space.
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Susan Peach was an early pioneer in pole fitness and is now the voice behind Your Pole Pal, a long-running resource for the pole community. With more than 30 years of experience teaching pole, dance, and fitness, she helps newcomers navigate the world of pole with confidence.

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